Words of Encouragement
Give in to me without hesitation or shame. Share all the dirty secrets you’ve been hiding away. Bring it all into the light and let me lift it off your shoulders.
When I first toyed with the idea of creating clipstores for my own video content, I tried to emulate the Femdoms that were already popular on each site, as well as the local ones I personally knew already. They’d all achieved success with their brands and so I could obviously do it too if I followed their formula, right?
In theory, yes, but reality is much more complicated than that. These other women were very ‘old guard’ in their approach to Domination. Sadistic. Manipulative. Cold. They were cruel authoritarian figures who could scold you at every turn until it feels like there’s nothing in the world that you could do right. I loved watching them work, just soaking in how they could cut a man down and show him his rightful place underfoot.
But I burnt myself out trying to force those cruel words out of my mouth and struggled to keep my expressions stern and cold. There’s a natural joy that can’t be kept from spreading across my face whenever I know that I turn someone on. I’m sure you can imagine how that didn’t quite fit with the Domina persona I was trying to build…
It took me a very long time to accept that I could still portray myself as fun, loving, and comforting, as well as dominant. Just because I hadn’t seen much content like that available yet, didn’t mean that people weren’t looking for it! So I pivoted away from the scary sadist persona to embrace the gentleness and tenderness that I prefer.
And what a difference it’s made! I think that it really shines through that I’m having fun and enjoying myself now, which in turn leads to my clients also enjoying their time with me more too!
Are you ready to take a look at some of my favorite encouraging clips? Check these out:
Encouraged by My Tits
mp4 • XX minutes
I know you don’t -really- need any more encouragement to jerk that meat of yours, but I look so hot with my delicate hands squeezing my big supple breasts and I love to watch you squirm to keep your orgasm under control as you watch me play with my tits. Can you hold back while I enjoy stripping off my clothes? Will you spurt when I pinch my nipples? Better not. I’m not finished enjoying myself yet.
I Love Being Your Porn
mp3 • 13 minutes
I know you look at me online. I know you look at pictures of me, videos of me. I know you perv to me and stroke your dick to me. I know you cum to me. It’s ok. It really is. I won’t tell anyone. It’s our secret. While you’re listening to this, pull up your favorite photos or videos of me. Play with that beautiful dick of yours and listen to me count down just for you.
A Message To My Lucky Boy
MP3 • 38 minutes
Hello, lucky boy. Using only my sultry voice, I am going to fuck you. Can you imagine a mind being so dirty, it can get you off without a single touch?
There are only two rules that you have to follow when you listen to this file. The first is: do as I say; if I tell you to picture something, do it, if I tell you to get in a certain position, do it. The second rule is: no touching your cock. You’ve got to let it free.
Sometimes a simple shift in perspective is all it takes to achieve a much-needed release. And giving myself the space to explore freely, instead of being stifled by preconceived notions, has led me to grow in pleasantly unexpected ways. Every day that I practice this, I feel surer and more confident in my abilities.
Below, I’ve included a list of ways that I try to make a conscious effort to ENCOURAGE my clients during a session.
And I would like to CHALLENGE YOU to take a look at examples like this in your own life and see how your attitude shifts when you bring in more encouragement to your life!
Instead of SHAMING for these things:
Let’s ENCOURAGE with these:
Self Image: Talking down about physical attributes like size, shape, weight, height. Some common themes would be SPH, fat shaming, body hair, body odors
Acknowledge short comings without dismissing them and search for ways to make them “excel” at having those traits. Can they be the teeny-tiniest? Can they be the smelliest, the hairiest, the hungriest? The best at being the worst _____ I’ve ever seen.
Sexual Prowess: Shaming for lack of sexual experience or confidence with regards to approaching women or men sexually. Most often they’ll self-identify themselves to me as virgins, cuckolds, or beta bitches.
Be excited at the prospect of teaching them the ‘proper’ way (MY way). Treating them like a blank canvas that I have full control over. Making contests to see if they can beat my techniques with my alpha studs.
Stamina: Being ridiculed for being unable to appropriately sexually satisfy either Me or their partner. These would often be ‘one pump chumps’, guys with ‘useless’ dicks, and CBT enthusiasts.
Challenge them to try to entertain me with their creativity before they receive gratification, if I’m aware of the situation beforehand. If not, then pushing them to continue anyways or focus on cleanup as a way to entertain me.
Sexual Orientation: Focusing on social stigmas against homosexual fantasies. Sissies interested in feminization, bi-curious folks and people who aren’t out to others or even to themselves yet
Act as a mentor, to teach them how to be as beautiful and sexually alluring as I am. Teaching, guiding and lifting them up as they aspire to be on My level.
Looking for some more of Me? Why don’t you try these:
