Gentle Guidance
It’s all a matter of paying attention, being awake in the present moment, and not expecting a huge payoff. The magic in this world seems to work in whispers and small kindnesses.
-Charles de Lint
Even if we resist it sometimes, everyone in this world can benefit from a little guidance.
Sometimes people come to me with a specific goal in mind for what they want to be encouraged to complete, but most often, I see people who aren’t sure of what they need and don’t know where to start.
That’s when I employ a soothing voice, a soft whisper in your ear, to encourage you to go juuuuuust a little bit further with me. I walk you along one step at a time, instead of racing full steam ahead into something you’re unprepared for.
I like to sweetly nudge at the boundaries of a standard vanilla session and pay attention to where I see a reaction while I playfully tease or toy. I’ve found it to be a much more enjoyable experience to make these discoveries slowly and carefully, instead of barreling along into the depths of a kink that you had only been tip-toeing in so far.
Yes, there is a place for harsh and stern Dominas whose cold exteriors match their deliciously sadistic tendencies and their perfectly accessorized latex outfits. In the past, I’ve tried it on for size (and looked fabulous if I don’t say so myself…) but the inherent intimidation and aloofness that comes along with that kind of authoritarian trope just wasn’t for me.
In essence, I want our time together to be fun and enjoyable, so if I were to try to turn your fantasies against you and reinforcing the shameful feeling around your deepest secrets, that would be counter-productive. I’d much rather build you up, nurture your fantasies, and encourage you to explore them in a safer way with me.
Below, I’ve selected a few of my favorite files where I explore boundaries and guide you to try something that may be new to you. If you’ve been struggling and aren’t sure if you are ready to take one of your fantasies a step further, I’d recommend that you take some time to relax and listen to my voice.
Hopefully, you’ll be pleasantly surprised with our little adventure together!
Guided Relaxation with Kaylee
mp3 file • 40 minutes
The stress of your daily life is just too much for you to take and I know that you’re looking for that perfect, sheer relaxation. I found that there is no better way to reach it than through sexual satisfaction. I do not want you to move a muscle, though. I want you to get your sexual satisfaction hands free. Are you ready to be guided by Me?
Moan for Me, with her next to you
mp3 file • 18 minutes
Risk and reward play a big part in arousal. How much risk will you take for the reward? Breathe, relax, and sink into the fantasy of Me and you, and her asleep. Will she wake while I take what I want from you? Will you be able to control yourself long enough for the pleasure to subside? Shhhh stay quiet, until you can’t anymore!
First Time CEI
mp4 file • 7 minutes
It’s time to confess to me. It’s going to feel so much better once you say it: “I want to eat my own cum”. Let me guide you through this confusing part of your life and help encourage you to become what you were always meant to be.
You may be wondering about how to explore this style of domination further, and that’s normal, especially if you’re only used to the media portrayal of a Domme as a harsh and authoritarian fetishist. Some keywords/tags that I find helpful to add on to your searches for files with this theme are:
- Encouragement
- Gentle Femdom (or shortened to GFD)
- Soft
- Sweet
- Sensual
- Comforting
- Good boy
What kind of combinations can you come up with? What about something like “Sensual Pegging for Good Boy”? Try it out for yourself!
Lastly, I’d like to challenge you to think about the people in your everyday life who have taken a gentle approach to guidance. Maybe it was a teacher, a mentor, a co-worker, a friend, or even a stranger. What kind of impact did that person make on your life, and do you find yourself smiling when you think about them now?
It may seem silly to some for an online domme like myself to want to impact your life, but that’s exactly what I aim to do! I love the idea that I’ve made a lasting impression on the people who’ve played with me and that I’ve brought joy and insight into an aspect of your life that you may not share with very many people.
Plus I love the idea that you’ll be thinking about me over and over again every time you slip a little bit deeper into your fantasies….
