My Turn-Ons
Having all eyes on me while I show off my beautiful curves.
Feeling the buzz of my powerful toys.
Watching you squirm while you try to contain your excitement.
And of course, testing you on how well you think you know what makes me hot.
How does one even boil down all of their turn-ons into a neat little list?
If it were that easy to know everyone’s exact combination, the world would be a better, happier, more satisfied place. But there are so many subtle nuances and little surprises when it comes to what makes me wet, that to rattle them off here in a tidy numbered list seems impossible…
Being a sensual creature by nature, my sex-drive thrives when all five senses are engaged: sight, smell, sound, taste, touch. When I’m at a loss for inspiration, I always go back to basics and work on describing what I am (or want to be) experiencing through my senses. Combining and contrasting different ideas like sharp/squishy, sweet/bitter, hot/icy or gooey/hard are a great way to immerse us both.
Plus, I find it incredibly satisfying to use all kinds of delicious adjectives in such a lewd manner. I love to fantasize about all sorts of scenarios and I like hearing filthy words come out of my mouth, letting them flow in the moment and spilling forth without a filter.
Sometimes I surprise myself at what I can come up with in the heat of a moment, especially since people have always been describing me as ‘quiet’ while I was growing up. I guess it never crossed anyone’s mind that I didn’t say anything because all my thoughts are nsfw 😉
It’s not just my own words that I like to hear; I also love it when my submissive isn’t afraid to join in and build on the dirty talk, or even just to honestly express their reactions. I love to make them squirm and pant and drool, watching as their desperation builds. It makes me very happy to reward good subs who aren’t afraid to hold back their emotions and show how horny they get for me.
Seeing the excitement my submissives have when their fantasies are being played out, is immensely satisfying. I love to hear a sub confess what their desires are and then generously grant them the opportunity to indulge.
I enjoy seeing a sense of relief pour out from them after they’ve shared their desires, so I try to make sure that positivity and encouragement are at the root of everything I do.
There’s something incredibly alluring about a submissive who knows their limits too, or who isn’t afraid to express that they’re inexperienced with an aspect of a fantasy they want to explore.
I am always pleasantly surprised when speaking to a new submissive who comes prepared to discuss their interests and who is capable of respectfully relaying the important information needed to fully enjoy our time together.
One of the common lines I hear from prospective subs is “anything you want”, and while in theory this might sound like what every domme yearns to hear, it’s actually incredibly frustrating not to have a jumping off point when starting a session.
I have to acknowledge that all of my most successful toe-curling sessions have started with open communication and respect. A polite submissive, who values my time and understands the importance of respectful negotiation, will always have an advantage over someone who treats their domme as a fetish dispenser. And being engaged and open to new creative directions is the best way to turn me on and leave me basking in the afterglow of my best orgasms.
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